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I think the field of romance is one of the best teachers of personal growth and development. Situations such as this, where another person is catching your attention and where a lot of ambiguity is involved, really tests whether you're centered, whether you're your own man.
I'd invite you to consider that when your inner voice is wanting to know what's going on. Is she going to be okay? Will she ever change? Should I trust her etc. All those questions are asked by your ego and they are not designed to make you happy. They have no answer.
When we find ourselves asking these questions, it's never useful to try and get them answered because there will just be more questions and more and more.
It might be useful to think of your own center, your own spirit and your own life. What do you really want in a partner? What does your ideal girlfriend look like? We are brought up to think that we can't have everything but I have met a couple of women in my life who at the time and for years, were absolutely perfect.
Also, realize that she has going on whatever she has going on and it's not really got anything to do with you. She's dealing with things in her life and she sounds like she's not really too happy right now. Again, we are brought up to think that we can make each other happy if we help address each other's problems but in reality we have a much better impact when we get happy in our own skin.
So I'd invite you to take a deep breath and focus on yourself. She will really be fine. Focus on the future and what you want from it.
Does this make sense or do I sound crazy :-)