Would it be a bad idea to contact his brother for help if he is ignoring me?

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I know I should take the hint but we dated 3 years ago and we have a long history, we started friends with benefits a couple of months ago and we both ended up catching feelings and he really sounded like he wanted more. We spoke around it three days ago though and he told me he likes me a lot and he's not sure what he wants because he doesn't want it to end like last time. It sounded like he wanted it to end so I was like I guess this is it then? And he said "just like that? Fine whatever" and he's not even reading my texts, ignoring my calls, I've kept trying and I know I should quit but I just saw no reason why he's cut me off this way, and after all these years it would be nice to keep him in my life as I truly enjoy having him there. Would it be strange to message his younger brother (he added me on Facebook this week) and just ask him if he could tell his brother to read my messages? This is the last thing I could think of doing and I don't want to look crazy but I truly care for him and I don't understand giving up so easily. And if anything I just need closure
Would it be a bad idea to contact his brother for help if he is ignoring me?
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