Most Helpful Girl
Sounds unstable. Personally, I don't have the patience for people like that haha I'd have been the fuck outta there the first time she pulled that shit...
Most Helpful Guy
i have encountered this behaviour myself in a relationship that i was in for over 5 years.
it could be a myriad of reasons why she is behaving in this manner. such as a traumatic experience. medical condition. or she is just being a b*tch.
the biggest factor is how strong is your patience and will power.
some strategies you can try are when she breaks up with you over text, message back saying it doesn't count unless its in person. she will most likely reply in anger and say many choice vindictive words.
another can be to act like it doesn't bother you. she breaks up with you over text and just reply back "ok" and don't respond back or be nonchalant when replying. Her tune will change.
Truth is that this behaviour will not change. She doesn't value you as a person. she might say she does when things are amicable but actions speak louder than words. Remember that.
It is your life and you are still young enough to find someone who will appreciate you the way you deserve.
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