Girls, heart broken again?
What Girls Said 2
This woman has zero respect for herself and is searching for situations that help her feel something. Your kind love does not. She only keeps using you because she knows she can. When you start loving her the way she wants to be loved, you will maybe get through to her. Do not let her in. Do not welcome her. Only care for the children. Be tough on her. You are allowing this.
She seems like she has some type of thrive on the attention. She does not respect you, because you keep allowing her back. Stand tall, take a stand (yes it will hurt, "tough love of any kind always does..." but quit letting her cut your heart. Don't chase her, let her go, if she falls, let her fall. It sounds like you are both co-dependent, get on with life without her, if she fixes her own issues, maybe it can work down the road. Tell her you can't be apart of her drama and life any longer... I know it seems hard, but I deal with addiction in my family, and I have had to do this in other ways, so trust me when I say, letting go will help YOU!
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