like everyone says it's unnecessary and a waste of time because most couples will get a divorce anyway?
Most Helpful Guy
I don't k ow how women feel about it but for a lot of men marriage does not really favor the male, especially in a divorce. I don't feel it's right that a man or female works their entire life to save for retirement, then to have it cut in half because of a divorce. To many of us men, especially the younger boys see their fathers, uncles, brothers, male role models go through a divorce, realizing what they don't want to end up in. I don't think a lot of women these days really get married cause they're really in love, they like the idea of a big party because their best friend got married or some other friend. Marriage is a financial contract. It's just a legal contract. I wish this legal contract would include that the man should get sex at least 2-3 times a week or other sexual things. Not worth it in my opinion.0
Most Helpful Girl
Most people who think this have never witnessed a healthy marriage and are probably not from a two parent home, at least, not a good one. My parents have been married over 30 years and while they annoy the PISS out of me bugging me all the time, I can see they love one another and would do anything for each other. Plus the tax breaks you get lol, and it's a sign that you'll never leave that person.
That's why people are against it. They don't know what a good marriage looks like and they want an easy escape route.0