Most Helpful Guy
People are saying don't talk and just move on and I can see why some people feel that way. However, I will say I completely get where you are coming from and envy you that you get an opportunity to talk to you ex and maybe see if you can work things out. I was with a girl who I thought was amazing and I had major feelings for her, but she just left me out of no where one day without explanation and I've been devastated ever since. Even though she really hurt me, if she contacted me and wanted to talk, I would and I'd be open to trying to work things out. I always think back to the great times I had with her and wonder why she didn't want that anymore and wonder if she ever feels she made a mistake in leaving me. So I say go talk to him and see where things go, if you two were meant to be things will work out. However, when you go to talk to him don't be all desperate and act like you need him back. I would say if you two were to get back together he would need to initiate it and admit he made a mistake, if you initiate the conversation of getting back together he will think he did nothing wrong and probably break your heart again. That is how I would personally handle the situation if it happened to me. I get the urge of wanting to be back together but if you do all the back together talk nothing will change, he needs to show he truly wants to be with you and that he's committed to being with you. If he doesn't do this then I say move on because you can find someone better and deserve someone better.
Most Helpful Girl
Yes I do, I was in a five year relationship and here is my advice- RUN! Once you have broken apart, it is like when a mirror breaks, and you stand and try to put the pieces back together, you get cut! In general, people's behaviors don't change. I know it is nice to think about the good memories, which you should always keep with you, but also think about the pain and the emotional turmoil when he left... maybe he is just lonely right now... who knows, your life, but my advice is this life is not made for us to look back... best of luck