Hey - me and my ex had a no contact period then she asked me for a drink went along we had a big chat she told me she missed me still loves me etc. ended up hooking up and she asked if we could go on a date next week. Since then she's been very hot and cold, I've tried messaging her keeping it upbeat chatty, she seems keen to meet still and she replies but its very one sided it feels and she doesn't make much effort to keep the convo going. I'm so confused over this behaviour.. what do you think she's playing at? I'm also concerned over whether she's seeing other people and whether I should be dating or not. I appreciate taking it slow but obviously we still need to try surely.