How does a guy feel when their ex or girlfriend told them that they hurt them?
What Guys Said 1
This isn't really a general circumstance, so I can't say without knowing him. Too many possibilities.
But in general, in regards to being affected by what an ex says it depends on a few things.
1. How close you two were beforehand and how/why you broke up.
2. If he respected you.
3. If he cares for you now.
4. How emotionally strong he is.
My ex depending on what she says, because of how well she knows me/knew me. If she has something to say about me or how I'm acting there's a kernel of truth to it there and i would honestly take it to heart. If I did something that I felt was justified tho, if she said it hurt her. I would apologize for hurting her, but not for what I did/said. But that's because there's a level of respect there that I have for her and for myself.
What Girls Said 1
Honestly at this point, you should avoid all contact with him. He's not healthy for you because he is a mess. He needs to figure out what he really needs instead of what he wants. You deserve to be treated better than being a second choice.
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