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"My wife cheated on me the first time..."
That should have been the end of it. Done, over, right then and there. Your choice to stay after you knew you couldn't trust her anymore is on you.
"I asked for advice online and the majority of females who told me to forgive and that girls make mistakes and that it would be wrong of me not to forgive her..."
You got some really bad advice. That is precisely why I don't ask women for relationship advice.
"After begging and crying..."
Okay, I get that she hurt you, but seriously? Begging and crying? Would James Bond beg and cry if a woman decided to leave him?
"She says she's taking me to court and her knew lover is going to hire one of the best lawyers there is..."
Hire a lawyer? Why? Unless you have significant assets, I don't see what a lawyer will do for either of you except run up huge legal bills. If you can reach a mutual agreement on how your assets will be divided, you'll both be much better off.
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