This guy and I broke up almost two months ago. We were still talking heavily after breaking up until he said he doesn't want to commit to anything or anyone just yet and wants to just be friends. But I just took that as a message to move on. But it's like he still talks to me when we pass each other in the hallway and I get little butterflies. I don't think it's in a way where he's flirting but still ya know me not being over him makes it's easy for me to confuse a hi to for flirting. I just feels like I can't be friends with someone completely until I'm over there. Is this wrong? If not how can I tell him without sounding like I'm stuck on him?
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You need to just tell him that you can no longer be around him and move on. Stop talking to him, because it just sounds like you two are playing games with each other. You either make a decision to be with him or not. You broke up for whatever reason you did, and for those reasons is what you need to consider. Not go back because you have feelings. Feelings will get you into a lot of trouble. You need to think rationally and ask yourself is any kind of relationship with this person is worth it or not. The attraction is there, but that is not a reason for you to get back with him. For your sanity you need to just let him go. Delete every social media link you have with each other, the pics, vids, every item you've given each other must be returned back or thrown out: even jewelry or clothes. Don't keep anything. Because it will remain you of that relationship and that person. The numbers included, has to get blocked and deleted.0