Would you sabotage your ex's life?
What Guys Said 10
No, I would just be an adult and get on with my life2
No. It's much more satisfying to sit back, watch her get pumped & dumped, watch her get fat, and see her life become a total train wreck, and know that I didn't have to lift a finger to make it happen, she fucked it up all on her own.1
If I want nothing to do with her then why would I involve myself in her affairs and sabotage her life? That's counter intuitive5
No. I will just carry on with my life. Also I don't need to do a thing. One just needs to keep being herself and other needs to keep drinking herself silly.0
Never sabotage any ex girlfriends life that to me is very wrong.
I would never do it cause i believe Karma can come back to me.1
Of course not. Just because our relationship didn't work out doesn't mean I should ruin her life.0
No because that's childish. Whatever happened you'll heal with a scar but you'll be able to move on... it's a waste of time that would probably come bite you in the ass.1
No. I move on. There are plenty of other people. It is totally stupid to devote time and energy to something that is past history.1
What Girls Said 10
I wouldn't let a person have that much control over me, no matter how bitter the relationship was. And I'm a strong believing in reap what you sow. If I go to great links to make somebody's life a living hell, it will surely turn on me. Our actions definitely have consequences.
IF I wanted any type of revenge, I'd just work on myself, make my life easier, and appear happier, becuase it will tell him that he was nothing but a brick wall was able to overcome.1
That only shows a bitter immaturity as well as opening themselves up to a lawsuit. The best revenge is a happy life, with no thoughts of the ex at all.2
The best revenge is to keep moving forward and let Karma take over... but in all reality, know you are a better person with more integrity!1
No. They did nothing bad to me. Plus, I wouldn't waste so much energy doing hateful things. That energy is better directed elsewhere.2
Nah. Takes too much energy and I'm not interested in compromising and sacrificing my character.
I know it hurts and you're feeling extreme disappointment but no matter what, you absolutely have to deal with that in a healthy, positive, progressive way that adds onto you as a woman rather than taking away from you as a woman. Revenge is only going to numb the pain for a little while but you still have to deal with it eventually and heal it the right way afterwards so you might as well just skip the additional, messy step of revenge and go straight to healing the right way!1
No never. That would be psychotic behaviour. I'd just cut contact with him1
No, and my reason would be that I'm not a bitter shithead.1
No! Let bygones be bygones. What would I accomplish by tripping up my ex?1
No. That's pathetic.1
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