We still ended up going out on the date had an amazing time together kissing touching and feeling really like a couple again. At the end of it she asked to see me again over the next few weeks but I told her we can't keep speaking seeing each other if she doesn't want a relationship between us.
I feel gutted, I'm a good looking guy who gets a lot of attention from women, in good shape, have a good job and good social circle. I don't understand whats preventing things - she's crying, telling me she loves me etc.
I don't know what to do and can't stop thinking about her and wanting to message her. I feel like my situation is hopeless and can't imagine a future without her in it - but at the same time I can't keep her around if im so deeply in love with her.
Most Helpful Girl
I know the feeling, trust me. Until she knows exactly what she wants, and it is a relationship, then her coming back and forth, in and out of your life will just hurt you even more. I've experienced it with the guy I am in love with. If he comes back again, he needs to know what he wants.
Most Helpful Guy
Well if she can't decide if she wants to be with you its probably for the best you let her go. Letting her back in to your life then her leaving over and over is just gonna cause you more pain. Find a girl that can make up her mind and will stay and not play these kind of games.