I wanted it but I never knew that he was doing it with other girls. I thought our relationship will last till wedding.
@Alissa21Premarital sex has its consequences. His goal with you was just to have sex. There was no wedding. It sad to get into your pants and thats it. Once you have sex outside of marriage what else does he have to fight for? You gave him everything that he already wanted.
It was said to get into your pants*He's a player and he was never serious about you. My close friend's ex did that to her as well. And did she learn from this really hard.
We were in a serious relationship at the beginning then he... and I dint. Just feel bad about it.
@Alissa21That was fake. It doesn't matter how serious you thought it was. It was done on purpose. They'll wait as long as they can until they know your weaknesses and then it happens. I'm only telling you the truth. The reality is that you can't go back and turn the clock. You have to move on now. He used you. That was the whole point, and it was a joke to him.
I know that. My question is I wanna remove the regret feeling from my mind? How can I?
@Alissa21You can't. You have the choice to continue thinking about it or you don't. Regret is still regret. You have to learn to be strong as a person and go about your life. But this time don't let your experiences from this be in vain. This was done because something is not correct in your spiritual walk. You need to ask God to heal your broken heart and soul, to cast out any spirits and demons you've transferred and picked up from your ex, to reveal the areas of your life that has open doors, and to lead you for now on. And if you need further guidance, go to your church and ask for prayer. Fellowship with your brethren and get back into what you need to do. Because it sounds like you've backslide.
At least he didn't do it at the same time with other girls when he was dating you. My ex boyfriend did it and he's is in love with another chick now.
he did it to me at the party after having sex with his girlfriend at the same party. she was there with him but i don't know where she was at while he was on top of me. i just know they had sex earlier at the party.
I know how it feels; I'm going through the same girl. Stay strong.
thanks... you too. stay strong yourself.
Yes. And now he seems to love girl. I just want this regret feeling to get out of my mind. Sometimes I feel it's not my fault, he was the one who cheated on me.
Yea I'm so sorry I feel like regret is like the worst feeling it's sounds like you really liked him and wanted to be with him and really hurt you
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I know the truth now and I'm tryna get over him. And I admit that it was my mistake. Is there any way to remove the regret from my mind?
Yes use it as a learning experience
You're right I agree.Sometimes something's just tickles in my head in a negative way like his new girlfriend told me today that he said to her I'm dumb and bla bla. I blocked both of them. He blocked me too.