So I've been talking to this guy for about 5months, and we just hung out for the first time tonight. I knew he had a girlfriend, but thought there would be no harm in just hanging out. We were sitting on my bed watching a movie, he had his hands around me and everything...then started kissing me. For a few minutes I thought nothing of it, then "HE HAS A GF" popped into my mind, I pushed him off and we went back to watching the movie. It happened again, and I said "Look, I don't feel comfortable doing this, plus you have a girlfriend and I've been cheated on I know how it feels".he said that he'll just leave so it doesn't go further. Then he sent me a text saying he likes me a lot and wants to dump his girlfriend for me. SO my ?..do you think he'd d the same to me? Please Help!
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The man has no self control and as the saying goes. "if he cheated on them he'll cheat on you". lets say you get together, can you really trust that he won't do the same to you next time he meets a girl he just wants to "Hang Out" with, the fact is he should have been single BEFORE he even accepted lying next to you in bed simply as a sign of respect for his current girlfreind.
if he can't offer the women he's with that simple sign of respect when she's not around then you have to question his integrity.