We've trying to fix things but I was looking through her phone and she randomly sent a pic to her ex of them two way back, and I notice for about 4 months back in her text she had contacted him once every month. Then I saw today on IG where she was having a conversation with her ex best friend and she tagged her ex in the comment that left me confused.
i questioned her on everything and she says she's deeply in love with me and wouldn't dare going back to her ex. What do you think
Most Helpful Girl
If the text messages and IG posts are nothing that she feels she needs to hide from you, then I wouldn't worry about it. When we get into a new relationship, our pasts don't disappear. We still have other relationships. Doesn't mean that you have anything to worry about. You probably text other people besides her, I would think. As long as things with her are going well, you should be fine.
Most Helpful Guy
Listen, it's hard to lose a person. It doesn't matter who. When you spend 3 years of your life with someone you are abandoning a whole piece of yourself. Don't badger her too much but rather understand the emotional hardship she is going through. She's deciding if she want's to/can shut the door on her past and that doesn't necessarily have to endanger your relationship.
Be there for her, give her any guidance you can and try not to worry to much about it. This really is an opportunity to show her that you can be there for her and you care.