I've basically been spending the last 3 months with a woman who has had hard past relationships. We started as friends but as time passed she opened up to me and I fell for her as we spent a lot of time on our own together (sleeping together etc). I believed I could fix her & I messed up... I did something which reminded her of her past. I told her it was weird for a guy to ask her to sleep over at his place despite the fact he's in a relationship, she tried to make out that I was accusing her of being a home wrecker & took it as jealousy. He turned out to be one of her best mates which I didn't know about at the time, so she made me feel guilty about it. Unfortunately this lady doesn't give second chances & I blew it despite me being honest. She expressed her wishes to no longer speak & blocked me on everything, we no longer talk anymore. This experience has ended up hurting me more than I planned. How do I move on, I find talking to new girls exhausting at the minute & I just can't stop thinking about her & feeling guilty over what I said. If I hadn't of mentioned it, things would still be fine between us to this day.
Most Helpful Girl
First: Accept it for what it is- OVER. Don't worry about being blocked. Move forward. Don't spend time talking to girls right now. Spend time focusing on you. Learn who you are and what you truly want, they women will come in due time. I had someone do this to me six months ago, and every day after it happened I felt like I couldn't breath. But I stayed busy, got on a weight loss kick, and followed my dreams in other aspects, and today, the only thing I think of when I think of him, are good memories, and I smile, but I have moved forward! You can too!0
Most Helpful Guy
No man in his right mind would be ok with his girlfriend 'sleeping over' with another man, no matter who he is.
So yeah, she was 'broken' anyway. You dodged a bullet. Just celebrate your 'liberation' with chilled beer.2