About a month ago he told me that we were not meant to be together and that we should stay separated. Since then our lease expired and I have moved to new place with our children. He has been staying on his friends couch this whole time. There has been a lot of back and forth with what is going to happen with us getting back together. Sometimes he says he never wants to get back together ever again. Sometimes he says he just needs more space and wants to work on it.
The latest from him is that as long as I keep child support out of the court system and I give him a couple months of space then he is willing to try and save our marriage. I asked him if his ultimate goal is to get back together and he said yes. I asked him if he was just telling me what I wanted to hear to keep things our of court and or if he really meant it, he said he meant it.
How do I get him back? As hard as it is to leave him alone and give him space do I really just not contact him at all and hope that he decides to come back? Is there anything I can do?