Most Helpful Guy
Sounds like you're trying to barge back into his life long after an old relationship has broken apart. If he's married, that suggests you've been out of the picture a very very long time. Move on already.
Most Helpful Girl
If he's married to another person, he's moved on. He doesn't want to think about you anymore and he doesn't want you in his life anymore. The only thing you can do is grieve and move on yourself.