I'm not his type anymore. (My Body Changed) I used to be petite. Now, I have curves. A lot of people hit on me everyday and would love to date me. Him he puts me down & tells me that if I lost weight he'd give me a chance. He tells me other people would give me a chance too if I was skinnier. Also, that he'd cheat on me. And he thinks I'm nothing but a slut. UGH. 😢 I've been told I have natural cute beauty & a nice & am too sweet. His loss?
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Yeah A LOT of men these days are only in it for your prime and will not commit to you for the long haul like for life. Relationship for men these days is easy access to free pussy rather than having to work for it with one night stands.
Seen it all the time. Girl gets with guy when she was hot. Guy fucks and uses her as a cum dumpster, have fun with her from age 20 to 26. Dumps her ass and goes right back to get a fresh 21 year old girl to do it all over again with. Eventually they settle down in their 30's with a younger woman.1
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Yea, sounds like it's a good thing your boyfriend left. He wasn't treating you right, like come on, it's never okay to call a girlfriend a slut. And told you that he would cheat on you?
I'm sorry but people's body's change. I've noticed this now at 27. Most of my friends who were very skinny in high school are much bigger now. It's not always because people let themselves go. A lot of times it's because as an adult, you are just bigger. A lot of people get upset because they are not the same size in high school. But so many things can change.
I'm several inches taller than I was in high school. So of course I am bigger. I'm only a couple sizes bigger though.
Don't be hard on yourself. It sounds like you dodged a bullet here. Find a guy who will love you for who you are and not call you a slut or tell you that he will cheat on you.0