After 14 years together, my spouse now doesn't feel the same about me. We have not been intimate in at least a year. He feels if we separate for a while, things will get better or I will realize that being in a relationship with someone who tells me he doesn't feel the same about me (on a regular basis) will be better than being alone. As a mom in her thirties, with no immediate family, I have a fear of being alone but I worry that few guys would give a second glance my way. We have had a good relationship until the past few years, which have gotten much worse lately. I have always been loyal and supportive, I just don't understand and he doesn't give any explaination. From a guys perspective, what could cause such a drastic change in someone's feelings?