But as long as I have a facebook or a twitter, my ex (es) can check on me anytime, which they do, my privacy is set to max on both, so they can't see anything I post, but the idea that they can view my general profile is annoying, When I update my profile pic or cover I spend a lot of time thinking about what they might think of it.
But I also don't want to disappear from the online world (although it seems like a good idea because of how much time they take away from one's day) or set up new accounts with other names.
What do I do? is it better to just disappear completely and not give them the satisfaction of being able to view my profile?
PS: I've been very disciplined for some time now not to check on them either.