Most Helpful Girl
Nice mindset. I'd say you're on the right track for not getting her back again. What has been rightfully lost shouldn't be brought back.
Do the same. Grow on your own as well.
Forget about her as she intended to drift away from you. It was her choice, her decision, her discretion, and her own will.1
Most Helpful Guy
Holy shit dude, we're literally in the same exact boat, my ex broke it off 2 weeks ago as well. Only difference is that I tried to get her back and only made things worse. I did my grieving and have started moving on. The older you get, the easier it becomes due to past experiences. I really loved this girl and honestly wanted to marry her (we were together for a year, thought I'd pop the question if it was still going very well for another year).
The one thing I've learned through all of this is that if you really did do your best to do good by her and you made her happy and that wasn't enough then it really isn't you. She's just not the one and you deserve a girl that makes you her priority in life, never settle for anything less. If she really did love you, she would never have left you. Who knows, she might come back she might not, the point is don't get hung up on a girl that isn't sure what she wants. If she ever comes back into your life and is sure about what she wants then maybe you can consider taking her back. That's important, she should be the one trying to get you back since she broke up with you, she owes it to you and if she doesn't try it's only more evident that she hasn't made you a priority in her life and you don't deserve that.
Do whatever you feel you need to do to get closure that the relationship is over and accept it. Move on from this girl, your time and energy should never be spent on someone who's not willing to soend it on you. As for the fb profile thing, my ex still has us as her profile pic as well and I even asked her to take it down but she refused because she likes it. It means nothing, she's just doing her own thing trying to get over you just like you're doing your own thing trying to get over her. Best advice I can give you is go out and meet new girls asap, it helps so much.
Obviously I still love my ex and would love to still be with her just like you wish the same. However, you've seem to forgotten that there's MILLIONS of girls out there, MILLIONS. In those millions of girls you'll find one that makes you her priority so start looking. I already have two dates lined up for the next week and a half. I have one tonight and the girl is drop dead gorgeous, I actually feel happy and excited for the first time since the breakup. Life is too short to cry about what ifs and people who are not there for you. One day you'll find a girl that won't give you any of the bs that your ex has given you and she'll be the one.1
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