This is my 2nd week during the no contact rule. I am actually feeling much better and I have been going to the gym everyday which I can start to feel the difference in my body/confidence.
As I previously mentioned in my last question, my ex and I attend to different boarding school and we decided to "break up" - or we drifted apart few weeks ago because we are senior in high school and she was not ready for relationship/she is extremely busy...
So far, I do not know whether the NC is working or not but:
1. I've posted more than 10 snapstory and she saw every one of them - So it cannot be 'accident'
2. I have completely stopped contacting her - and should I not watch my ex's snapstory too?
3. Right after I posted a snapstory of a dog, she posted a dog snapstory immediately
4. My grades are boosting like a rocket lol
The problem is that there is an activity night where I can visit her school this Saturday. I was planning to keep the NC until January or March ( Where all of college app is done) but should I meet her?
I mean this is 100% not guaranteed to work and I feel this is not the time to do it.
I really want to know what other people feel and if there is any question, I will try my best to answer it.
Should I see her during no contact rule?
What Girls Said 1
A true No Contact is stopping all Social Media, all phone, all communications in general. You actually block them from all social media, take them off all email lists, and take their number from your phone. The point of No Contact is generally so that you can have a period to either move on, or at least to take your own life and work out whatever has caused the split. Looking at their life story in pictures only makes you still feel and wonder... getting over her you will not unless you take her completely off your radar- best of luck1
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What Guys Said 1
So... your grades are skyrocketing and so is your physical shape and confidence ever since you guys "split". Maybe that's your sign. I'd keep going my own way and focus on improving myself... not worrying too much about other things.1
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