We broke up 6 days ago. It wasn't a nasty break up, we didn't break up over anything horrible or one of us cheating on the other. I became needy in the last 3 weeks when we were apart then when she got back she had decided that we should end things now before we have arguments like she did with her exes. The reason is because I won't see her for 4 months so things between us might get worse.
Can I ask a mutual friend where I stand right now with her, how she feels truly? I'm prepared for the worse but I don't want her to think I'm obsessive and possessive for asking our friend how she feels.
I'm currently not speaking to her as I want some space to get on with my own thing for a while.
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I would give it at least another week or so before you ask the friend. I'm assuming that the friend is a girl, and in that case you can bet that she's going to tell your ex that you asked about her, and she'll probably tell her the same day you ask her!
I have to ask, what do you hope to achieve by asking the friend how your ex feels? If you want to do your own thing for awhile, you're not in a place to get back together with her, so what do you want? Closure never really happens in a break-up, unfortunately.0