My boyfriend cheated on me about a year ago. He apologized, I forgave him, we are past that now. I believe we are happy. There are times when a sad feeling, (that he cheated) comes over me.
I sometimes thinks about cheating on him back.
I saw an episode of Family Guy when Louise cheated on Peter and the only thing that could have cured the relationship was for Peter to have an affair also.
Do you think this will work in real life?
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I know they say that art imitates real life, but Family Guy? Please don't use that as measuring stick! Cheating on him to prove a point will only prove that you don't really care about your relationship, or your self worth. What if he left you, then what? You'd think he had no right be upset, right? But regardless of why he cheated you're doing it to actually hurt him. What if it backfires, what if he just shakes his head, and decides to suck it up and takes it. Don' t you think that you will still wonder if he's going to get you back by cheating again? This is not a road you want to go down.
Also, not to be sexist, but whenever a women tries to get back at her man by using the "What's good for the goose is good for that gander" the woman loses. He sex's some woman for pure pleasure and you're willing to let some guy use your body just so you can prove a point. Somehow the only one that wins here is the guy you decide to bump and grind with...he gets no guilt sex.
And if you're still thinking about it, think about this...what if in your efforts to get some payback booty you got pregnant or worse a disease.
I hope this helps.
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