now we have been dating since march 22th 2016 and its nows November 3rd 2016. the first 5 months before my girl went away to college we were always together never argued we was like a perfect duo. and then everythng chnaged when she moved 1hr away to college that im going to transfer to next year. we been aruging like a lot over the phone and txts. and the best 2 months its been aruging and yesturday i asked her what she wants and she said she didn't know if she wanted to be with me or not she was quiet for like 30 seconds and yues that mad me mad but i still wanted to be wit her. and today she texted me good monring and then i txted her good monring and then i didn't hear after she read my 3rd text (read Recipt) so an 1hr later i called and asked if she was ignoring me and she said no she was on the phone with her grandad blah and she said im glad you called and said " i think we should break up" now she's been talking about this for while and her reason was its selfish of her to be in a relationship with someone who cares about her a lot and i dont know what i want. she said its casue she sees single people on campus and see that they look happy and stuff ^__^. recently a girl she met on campus she been friends with just happned to break up with her boyfriend as well so im thinking she's changing casue i know my girl and she wanted to be with me for the long hall. we talked and ended up not breaking up but I don't know what is going to happen to us or what iam to her anymore. what i am asking is she said i think we should break up rather than she wants to break up like i know she doesn't but its like wtf...
Most Helpful Girl
Well if she's saying you guys should break up she most likely wants to, I'm. sorry and I know that hurts but if she tried to break up and the relationship is still on, I don't know how much longer it I'll last , she's most likely feeling distanced being away and may have lost feelings , I think it would be better to ask her the real reason she would like to break up because most people would not break up just because they see a friend breaking up with their spouse1
Most Helpful Guy
listen man if you love her don't let her go. Show her how much she means to you. You stated she said she's unhappy so think to yourself what about this relationship is making her unhappy and what can I do to change that. If she doesn't know what she wants and is only debating breaking up because she wants to free in college that's idiotic. College is not an excuse for cheating or anything. Tell her how much she means to you man show her. Send her flowers or just do something nice for her, anything. And at the end of it all if she's unhappy then her staying with you won't fix that, the relationship will be forced and not fair on either one of you. Just give her some time to think and avoid stupid fights in the future and show her how much she ducking means to you man even if it makes you look like a pussy just do it. Love is love and it's priceless. Peace ✌🏼️0