- Go ahead and send the letter
- No DO NOT SEND the letter...(why not?)
Is it bad to send your EX a letter?
What Guys Said 6
You seem like a sweet girl (from reading your replies), so I will share with you what I learned. A letter screams "Hey, you're still on my mind and I haven't moved on yet." Even with that, writing something like a letter to pour out your thoughts is actually therapeutic... for me. Don't send the letter looking for reconciliation or some kind of amicable response. Just send it, and thrust yourself into moving on!1
It's a bad idea, but one we all probably make at some point... Sometimes more than once because we are idiots with hearts...1
Just send it. It'll clear your head. If he doesn't respond back, then you can move on to better people.0
nope no need0
What Girls Said 4
Write it but don't send it. I have a whole journal I use for letters to the guy I fell in love with. It really helps getting it out on paper. I mean it still hurts, but knowing you can write about it makes me feel better. I've tried texting him and he ignored me and it just made me more hurt so I don't recommend that2
No point. He doesn't need to know how you feel about it, it's already over and he's moving on. Telling him what you feel won't really achieve anything.1
I wouldn't say it's bad or not... depends on what kind of situation it is. But if you're going to send the letter, you have to get yourself prepared by not receiving any replies from him, but still stay strong and move on afterwards. If you can't, I suggest you don't do it. I don't know the both of you, but if he doesn't have the intention of remaining friends with you, then don't ask him how has he been. But if he does or dk, maybe you can send the letter. Decision lies with you. Sending it or not won't have a large impact on your life.1
Just forget about him, not worth your time1
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