Has anyone ever broken up with their ex and somehow gotten back together although the 2 of you slept together after the bu? or how did you do it? I am in a confusing situation. We broke up awhile ago but he was the first to contact. We slept together for a few months although it killed me to not be official. He changed his mind and said we should stop. He said it was not fair to either of us to continue with this. This went back and forth with everytime we did something he would tell me that the next day. Lets say this happened 3 times and then now he has nont said that. I still want him back and feel like there is still something but dont know how to approach this. I feel like he gave up too soon on something that before we broke up was great. He was saying how amazing i was etc. We got along great so I don't know. I feel like he got strong feelings too quick and got scared to possibly. How do i tell him i still want a relationship? I have been wanting to say it for awhile but everytime i just chicken out.
Getting back your ex although you slept together? and how to tell him you want more again?
What Guys Said 2
seems like you got a good flow going... you know how when you slide the matchstick on the matchbox... sometimes it takes a few tries before it lights (or becomes useless)
Ride the flow. If you start building expectations... you only set yourself up for disappointment. Its sexual for now, but work it, go from sexual to outside, spend some time, guys (contrary to female belief) aren't stupid... he will know your intentions and decide if he wants in or out... but the key is to "Bust A Move"... put in an obvious effort.0
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What Girls Said 1
Maybe write your feelings down in a letter and give it to him? Otherwise I think you should go out for coffee or lunch with him and spill it all. Have a heart to heart and tell him everything you told us. Tell him why you think he is special and why you believe you are right for each other. Now is not the time for games or ego. Just the truth.0
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