I really don't know what to do here. This guy broke up with me and I still can't get him off my mind. It's been almost 3 months. But, the thing is he made me believe he cared. He told me he really liked me and he saw this going somewhere. He was ALWAYS texting me asking me how my day was. Then all of a sudden he's like I don't have time for this anymore. I really want to send him a message and get somethings off my chest. Just to tell him how much he hurt me. And call him out on his lies. (I don't expect to get him back) I just want to get something's off my chest. And I've tried the whole writing it down and keeping it throwing it away and doing it over again. I just want to message him. What should I do?
Most Helpful Guy
I'm so sorry about what happened to you. I know your hurt, I have been there before. What I have learned is that there is nothing you can say after a breakup to make you feel better and neither should you want to say something after someone after they broke your heart. I want you to know you are worth so so much! It may be a while before you move on but that's up to you when you begin to forget and move on. Its going to be okay, things will be better for you. Just be strong, and look forward for something better to come into your life :)1
Most Helpful Girl
honestly, he's some guy, if he just easily tossed you away like that. The least he could have done was explain why he left. It's scary isn't it, the way people are. First they tell you they want you and need you and the next minute you're left with doubt and uncertainty. Should you text him? My opinion, yes. Just ask him why he did what he did. Don't stress about it though. If he answers, good. It's nice to know that he actually responded. If he doesn't, simply walk away. But my BIGGEST piece of advice that I can give to you is DON'T go back. Someone that threw you away that easily is someone that would do the same.1