Most Helpful Girl
after that long, i'd take a good year off for myself
learn being happy by myself again
because if you stay miserable, you'll just attract misery into your life
that said, i'd be careful of any rebound relationships though
but once you're happy with yourself you'll realize that you're still young and that there are plenty of fish in the sea!
Most Helpful Guy
Don't know still figuring it out after being married 17 years and now divorced so I'm just getting use to being alone for awhile so I'm not on a rebound just to be with someone