for the past 5 months or so I was cheating on my boyfriend with this guy who was also dating someone... when I started hooking up with him I thought we might have really had a chance to try things out, because we got along really well and have a lot in common... but when I realized I was wasting my time with him I told him we couldn't hang out anymore because what we were doing wasn't fair. but now I just can't stop thinking about him when I know that I need to because it is the right thing to do... I just feel really sad, and kind of used, and its like it's so easy for him to forget about me... how can I do the same? I was just wondering if there might be some ways to get him out of my thoughts, permanently...? How can you let go of someone who was technically never really yours...?
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Um... Well, that is sorta tough one. I have been in a similar situation, and I can understand where you are coming from, it is very hard to just forget him even though he wasn't technically yours. You need to worry more about what is best for you. It is not healthy for you to follow a guy that can not be yours. Keep in mind that you are not only hurting yourself by being with and thinking about him, you are also hurting your boyfriend and him and his girlfriend. Honestly, you did the right thing with letting him go, because it is the right thing and you can do better than going out with someone who will never appreciate you for who you are and is just using you.
I hope this helps and you figure out what to do.