When I would tell him something that bothered me in the relationship (wanting to go out more on dates, wanting more affection, wanting him to stop talking about other girls) he wouldn't listen, would go off tangent. He'd get sad and say how he was such a terrible person and how he'd been bullied so that I would end up apologising to him. It would never get resolved, Told me how he was making such big changes for me. Made me feel unreasonable.
I think he should have asked me if I was happy with what he'd done not just tell me it was resolved now. I got very resentful of him and a bit rude back. Told me I never trusted him to do anything. I just wanted him to do it off his own back not have me guide him the whole time. Felt like he didn't care that much.
He's got a severe health condition but I had to make him and beg and plead him to go to the doctors: then he'd tell me how well he was doing. He used to sulk when I made small suggestions or tried to talk to him about it. I broke down and cried for an hour about it.
He dramatically stomped on something cheap to break it and stormed out the room. He's hurt my neck on boxing day when I sneaked a peek at his cards when we were playing with his family. We had a huge argument about that but still I always felt like I was the one making arguments - but I had a right to be upset. He's angrily thrown things in the bin when I told him they weren't safe. Then denied he was cross.
He made me forgive him for everything whilst we were on this break at the end and told me all the bad things i'd done.
Do you think he;'s emotionally abusive? Or just nasty?
Thanks for reading and to anyone who replies x