Before i left, i made sure we were good, he said that we were great and how much he loved me. several hrs later dumped. No communication since then (3 weeks) i am at a loss.
Anyone ever go through this? how did you cope? i feel so betrayed.
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I'm very sorry. I can imagine how hurt you are.
I was in a LDR for a year and a half. We always got on well and were able to resolve any issues. He ended it just out the blue. We don't have contact now. I miss him so much.
It took me a long time to accpet it was over. He was part of my life everyday, because we'd chat via video and text everyday.
I was prepared to uproot and sacrifice my friends , family and job to be with him.
I just try focus on how thankful I am that I didn't give up everything to be with him , and then him end it once I was settled there with him. That would have been too much for me to deal with
I guess it's taught me that a LDR's are not right for me.
The most painful goodbyes are the unspoken and unexplained ones. You don't get the closure you need. Your pain will ease in time though.1