Yep, pretty much
Well, first off I wouldn't pick any of the two choices. He pretty much cheated on me during our relationship. Regardless if I did or didn't find out about the other person he dated during our relationship, we are already over. Us is done; there's nothing to go back to, so the option of forcing him and the other person to break up is stupid and pointless. It's like trying to get revenge on something that is a waste of time. I cannot allow myself to do something so lame and hurtful to someone who is already such a waste of time to me. And secondly, I would not allow myself to be hurt or "wallow in self pity", because clearly we broke up for different reasons. With that being said, there was already something that causing the problem, which proved that the relationship couldn't work. Finding out he cheated on me only gives me more of a reason to be happy that I'm not with an asshole anymore and that I can find someone who will be faithful.
This question was modeled after an actual experience that happened to me. I met a girl online who lived in the area and right after we made plans to meet in person (three days later!) she told me that she was only dating me to get the attention her boyfriend wasn't giving her
Oh... well three days... yeah I'd just forget about it and move on. She's clearly crazy and you've got better things to worry about.
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