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I've been trying to move on from my breakup from last month and while I've made a lot of progress it's still hard. I was very in love with her and everything seemed to be going so smoothly with almost no effort. We were together for a year and while it might not seem like that long we had progressed very quickly. We even lived together for a month and slept over each other's places almost daily for the last half of the relationship. I really loved this girl and I was so happy. I've never felt a connection that strong with anyone else before and to lose that and to accept that that person you once shared it with is going to be a stranger in your life is hard.
It's hard if you let it get to you
the whole point is that it's only hard because you let it get to you because it was something special. There's a difference between breaking up with someone you're dating and breaking up with someone who you're doing everything with, someone who you want to be a part of your life forever. If you're not having a hard time getting over someone it only means that you were never fully invested in that person to begin with.
I don't want to be fully invested with someone. That's irrational
And there is many men that I can't take seriously. That's my problem
that's why you don't get why people have a hard time, it's because they allow themselves to fall for the other person, something you've never done
And is something I'll never do
I'm a harsh person. No men like that but that's how I am. Plus, like I said, taking people seriously is something I struggle to do
@guy532 I am so sorry, I know how it feels 😕
@nolookingbackx Thanks 😊
I hope you find a girl that deserves your love and get better soon. You seem to be a very sensitive and valuable person. I wish you everything best :)
Great. What about me? I suck?
No, of course not 😀 I wish you a great guy too! But actually love is not very rational but it is beautiful when someone loves you back ☺ when both people care same the relationship is great
When both people what?
sorry for my English, I mean when both people care and love each other equally :) I have always been the one who cared more and it hurt. I hope I meet the right guy one day.
Everyone I know around me is sensitive except me. Why?
Well, it's the same reason why people can't get over being fired.
That is not the same thing
I don't really care about people's feelings, neither my own so that's why I seem so heartless
At least you're doing better now
That's great!! I wish you the best 💜
Thank you so much!
Even that, it's not a big deal
It is when you've loved someone for a long time. Have you gone through a breakup like that?
I don't agree with the extreme drama queens but when you're attached to someone and they leave you it's extremely painful.
I've never been in love so 😂😂
I broke up with a guy this year
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That relationships are joint investments. People don't like losing their investments when it comes to money, now imagine investing emotions...
I don't investing emotions with many people. I just can't take them seriously
Many people don't invest their emotions lightly. That's why when they do it's extra special.
It's never been special to me. Always the same damn thing
Then you don't realy open in your relationships.
What's the point of being in one anyway? At least 80% of men I meet are superficial
**really not realy
You kinda remind me of me a few years ago. Anyway your way of thinking will change.
I was there. I don't think, i know.
It's not my fault if people are not worth trusting. You're only 3 years older than me so pardon me for not taking you seriously
Years don't matter with these things. In fact i wish i learned this in my early teens, it would have help me a lot.
No. I don't think it'll be hard for me
Well that's you. Your question was "why some people can't get over a simple relationship". You never said anything about you. You asked about people in general
I asked that BECAUSE of my personal experience and it didn't to put it in my question
Yes but everyone reacts differently to a breakup. You don't know there circumstances so why are you generalizing every breakup?
I said BECAUSE OF MY PERSONAL EXPERIENCE
Lol why are you taking this personal? 😴😴😴
But YOU ASKED A QUESTION. I feel like you're missing the whole concept. Here's a hint. You ask a question (PERSONAL OR NOT) and people respond with there opinion. This is my opinion. Deal with it 💁
I don't care about your opinion since no one forced to respond. I got an genuine response from a guy that explained to me how hard it was for him and it changed my perspective. That's all I needed. Not some random female user who's anonymous (😴😴) thinking she can fight me with some useless crap. Sorry I do not tolerate these kind of behaviour 👋👋👋 ✌
Then why not close the question? Why not update and say no more responses? You literally are so ignorant. It's sad how you're just looking to pick a fight with anyone. Damn girl pick up a hobby or something
A fight? You call this a fight? 😂😂😂
This made my day
No I actually call it a 20 year old girl that has to act like a bitch to anyone who states a different opinion than her.
And this bitch says let it go and stop replying ✌😴
Was that sarcasm?
no, your question was as bare as they come. no info on the situation at all. how are we supposed to give meaningful answers to such a vague question?
Because I wanted to see how people would react
ok. thanks for the heads up.
If you didn't took my question seriously, don't bother answering
i dont know what you want lol. there is no back story to this question, there is no way to answer it because we have no idea what as happend
It was just an random story/rant about how annoying y'all can be about breakup