So I dated this girl for 6 months. She was from my church. The breakup wasn't messy. I wanted to make things work, but she didn't. I never treated her poorly, we were just too different.
Anyhow, it has been 2 months since the break up and although my church friends seem to be acting the same around me, something is off. For instance, on Friday they threw a pot luck and didn't bother inviting me. I'm almost positive she got invited, and feel like they didn't invite me because she was going. They're also planning a small getaway in 2 weeks. I found out about it from a mutual friend who thought they had invited me - they didn't.
Is there any recovering from this situation? I'm considering switching churches and starting fresh - which bothers me since I've been going to this church for 20 years, and my ex just started attending 3 years ago.
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Ask them what's going on. If it's to do with your ex, just tell them there are no hard feelings between you two (I assume there aren't) and if they say something about letting you two move on tell them it was your relationship and it's none of their business how fast/slow you're moving on.0
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