We met online and dated for an amazing 8 months! He really was the perfect boyfriend and never treated me badly. We loved each other and the break up came out of nowhere (at least for me). He had even told me he loved me the day before without me even saying it first. He asked to go on a break for two weeks and I respected that thinking that there was still hope, but he dumped me anyway. When I asked him why, he said it was because I didn't do some of the same things he did, like marathons and mountain biking. He also claimed I was way more into the relationship than he was, but I didn't buy it! He immediately blocked me and several of my friends on Facebook, except for two of my guy friends. I thought this was weird, but also thought it was a good sign of wanting to see what I was up to.
I waited month before I texted him, just to say that I accepted the break up. There was no response until a week later when he asked me if I wanted my stuff back. We exchanged stuff without seeing each other face to face and there has been no contact since (about 3 weeks).
Is there still a chance he could change his mind? How much longer could it take? Do you think he misses me?
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There's other fish in the sea. -- You deserve better. And I'm not just saying this cause I'm a girl. But you're looking for something it doesn't sound like he wants at the moment. And as far as the break up goes. (Honestly) He just isn't into you anymore. I had a friend that dated this guy for two years and just a couple weeks ago broke up with her because he wasn't into her like he used to be.
But on a happier note, you seem like a sweet girl. You'll find someone to sweep you off you're feet again. :)1