Most Helpful Guy
Had a few short relationships which dont really count cause it didn't go past a month or 2 neither was i interested in them that much BUT...
had a 5 year relationship and things didn't work out in the end. We were 2 completely persons who liked different things and had different interests so we ended the relationship mutually in good terms. She decided she didn't want ro be friends nor did she want to be friends at least for a long time. To be honest, it happened 2 years ago and I've had a couple hook ups but almost daily i think about my ex of 5 years. Always wonder what she was thinking or how she changed and what things i did wrong or right. Dont get me wrong, best thing we did was to split up and go our own ways but I always look back and remember those good times we had and the things i learned from her and how i wish i could go back and relive those great times when we were happy together. I also get mad at myself sometimes for the things i said to her as well as the things dhe did to me and said to me that hurt me. It might seem like i still have feelings for her or that im not over her but i am. All i wish is to be able to talk to her and have a conversation every once in a while. We dont have to be friends but we can be civil and act like 2 people that grew up together and dated for 5 years. But in the end sometimes is better to leave things in the past and not look back but its hard not to when you are away from home for school on your own and basically alone. Its good to reminisce, to look back and learn from your mistakes but its bad when you get stuck on that page. My has been so much better since we broke up. And now i think i kind of like my best friend! And she's in my hometown unfortunately but its ok we talk all the time :) ( sorry for my grammar)
Most Helpful Girl
I had a couple of on and off relationships and frankly, I don't miss them at all. We began as friends for about a year and then began dating for a month. Sure, they were good friends, but they didn't seem to give any effort for the relationship. I was always the one putting in effort and they didn't ever appreciate me, so I cut it off.
A few years later, they tried to get in touch with me to see what I was up to. I had actually forgot about them entirely until that point, and I didn't really have any feelings for them anymore. The conversation didn't last long and I haven't heard from them since. I never missed them and I probably never will. They gave me nothing in the relationship to remember them by.