There is this wonderful person, I just can't be with him due to my own personal reasons and he can't be with me due to his personal situations with his job and living far. We decided to friends who keep in limited contact. I tried to end things completely a couple times but he wanted to be friends. Then I tried to end it saying we should just not talk again so we can both move on, after over a week of continuously feeling I was wrong, and heart pain I told him sorry and we should just be friends. I have been wondering if I should just cut all ties again so we really can move and I want to let him move on, but my heart hurts so much when I think about how to do this, more than it has before. I usually have very little problems letting guys go. Has this type of thing happened to anyone else before?