me and my boyfriend have been dating for 2 1/2 yrs. and he decided to cheat on me with his childhood friend, that girl had a boyfriend too, and she thought it was funny that I got mad she said it wasn't that serious. they didn't have sex. they just talked sexually and told each other how much that they've been wanting to date each other, I broke up with my boyfriend because I wanted him to have a chance with her so both of them could be happy but he didn't want to leave, he said he still loves me, but til this day I can't stop checking his phone, his emails, who calls him, I feel so paranoid and I lost all respect for him. he promised never to cheat on me because he said he knows how horrible it feels since his ex cheated on him, so I don't know what to do or think anymore I feel so weird, what should I do?
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Oh man that sounds like my worst nightmare. (my boyfriend has a very close friend whos female... very flirty... I hate it)
I can't tell you what to do, but if that happened to me I'd have to break up with him. Even though it might kill me. I'd have to. If there's no trust, and you don't think you could ever trust him (or her for that matter), it shouldn't go on. They are always going to be friends and you're constantly going to feel like you're in competition with her and it's bullsh*t.
Break it off. You're better than that. If you stay, you're just going to look like a doormat. Don't be a doormat. You can do better.
You shouldn't ever feel like you're in competition with anyone.1