we broke up three weeks ago after dating for 2 years. at first I did all the usual begging and debating with her why we should give it another shot but she wasn't keen said she was done trying and we need to move on. during our relationship I took her for granted and was a sh*tty boyfriend most of the time so I know why she cut it I wasn't making her happy. but I really realized how much I fuked up and wanna make it up to her and she knows this but was still acting really cold and uninterested toward me. so I cut off contact about a week ago and the last couple of nights she has been msging me asking what I'm doing and how I'm going. do you think she wants me back or is just playing mind games to see if I'm still interested? I haven't been acting keen in fact the opposite as if I'm over it. but I'm not I really want her back.
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You are both playing games. You more so it than her it seems. You f*cked up, that's the god honest truth and she knows it.
First : decide, do you really want her back?
Second: If you do, can you make the decision to treat her right always. Girls are princesses and deserved to be treated as such. its cliche, yes, but that's how most girls wish guys were raised.
Third: You want her back and you know that you will make every effort to treat her well.
Tell her! Apologize, for every single thing you did. The longer and more detailed, the more heartfelt it seems. Then tell her you want to be with her. Let her decide. It might take more than words for her to believe you will change. When she decides, if it is no, be understanding. Then, let her go and let her contact you if she wants.0