I have been seeing a man that I have been acquainted with for over 25 yrs. We are both mid 40's.Both single, both wanted marriage, he wanted children, I have a child but cannot have more.We decided to see each other anyway. the relationship became one sided where I was doing more work, We lived an hour drive away form each other ,but I was doing all the driving to his place, he never asked me to movies, or dinner on weekend he always had plans, his calls became less frequent, I was not a frequent caller either, I thought that he would like the freedom. Finally when we were together even if he called and asked me to come to his place,many times he would be rude and cold, sometimes we had sex, sometimes we didn't.He would ignore text and not return calls as if it was OK even though we had discussed this issue. Finally after 4 mos I broke it off and his response was to say that I was a pain in the butt and he agreed to the break up and see me around.I was shocked...tempted to callback and discuss it but I have decided to move on but his reaction was hurtful, it has been 2 weeks, should I just move on and never contact him?
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NO, were RIGHT to break up with him! He does not seem to be at all worried about your thoughts or feelings. You said he ignored your text/calls, makes no effort to see or communicate with you, and is rude/cold when you were with him. You definately do not want this man in your life. I realize it's hard not to be hurt, but really, he does not deserve it. I would not contact him for any reason. There is no reason to treat someone the way he treated you. Don't waste your time on him. You deserve better.0