I've been with him for two years. First of all I love him and have spent a lot of year that I think are growing years with him. But I also don't see our relationship or our selves individually healthy for each other. Sometimes he's snappy then he all sweet and kind. I just don't like how we are anymore. I'm more like a pal than a girlfriend and I don't think he's grown up enough to have a girlfriend and I feel I hold him back because I baby him. I don't want to hurt him but I don't know how to even start with the talk.. Please help me.
Most Helpful Guy
sit with him and tell him how you feel about this relationship but don't break it up at that moment. Give him a chance because I guess he never knew his behavior was troubling you. But if he doesn't change after all that talk then dump him.0
Most Helpful Girl
Ur going to hurt him there is no way to avoid that it sucks he'll feel bad and so will u but u can't avoid it just start by being honest and go somewhere private not a lot of people and say pretty much what u told us that ya love him but don't think y'all r best match for each u feel u have grown both of y'all have and it's not the same anymore neither r ur feeling u that ur unhappy feel like both of ya hold each other back or down and would probably happier if y'all went ur separate ways kinda talk either way it'll hurt him unless he has been feeling and thinking the same thing as u but didn't know how to bring it up1