About 8 months ago my ex ended our relationship. He said it wasn't going anywhere
(I thought it was though😞) I asked if he had met someone else and he sent me a photo of another girl and him happy together.. as though on a night out. He then told me to delete his number, and that it's over , so I did.
It broke my heart and it took months to get over it. I deleted all photos , because I decided I didn't care about him anymore because of how cold he ended it.
A few nights ago I saw a photo I didn't know I Still had. I came across it by chance. I looked at the picture and couldn't stop crying. I cried into my pillow all night. 😓I don't know why because I thought I was over him. I'm confused to why I cried so much looking at his photo 😕
Most Helpful Guy
You cried because you're not 100% over him just yet, and that's ok. As time goes on and the further in time you get away from that situation, you'll be more and more recovered. You cried because it brought back the memories of you two together and how he broke up with you in such a hurtful and inconsiderate way. You just have to tell yourself that you'll meet another person that'll be way better than him and that you'll be much happier. What he did to you was not a personal attack on you, what I mean by that is that he'll probably do it to his new girlfriend also and the next one. So don't let yourself get down and feel that you did something wrong, it's just the person he is, but don't worry, what goes around comes around and he'll get his heart broken in the same way as he broke yours. It's just a merger of time. Hope you feel better.
Most Helpful Girl
He's an ass and you deserve better. It still hurts bc he used to mean a lot to you and then he hurt you, so even though you might not love him anymore you still remember the pain and it somehow still affects you. I think it'll take som time before you can truly think of it as 'in the past' and that's understandable.
Sorry for what you went through, but things will change and it won't hurt as much as it does now.
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