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Sounds like he got scared or someone scared him off. It probably hit him that the relationship was getting real and it scared him off. Don't ask me why so many guys seemed scared of a commitment (if I had to guess, I would say it has something to do with childhood and parents). You can try to contact him and let him know you still care for him and that you're willing to take it slower if he really wants to. But only if you're ready to do that of course. Sorry to hear about your loss and I hope you get him back.