My ex left me a month ago. We had a small argument over moving in together, he wasn't ready. Thats fine, but ultimately we decided id move closer to him and wed revisit the moving in thing later. I was fine with that an he was excited that id be living closer by (we currently live 20 mins away and moving near him id be like 5 mins or less) he excitedly was talking about him visiting my home and all that (currently i have roommates) . He said he thought this would make our relationship better and stronger. He said he loved me so much and then a few hours later he dumped me over text. And I've barely heard from him since. Its been a month. We were together 2 years.
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Sounds like he got scared or someone scared him off. It probably hit him that the relationship was getting real and it scared him off. Don't ask me why so many guys seemed scared of a commitment (if I had to guess, I would say it has something to do with childhood and parents). You can try to contact him and let him know you still care for him and that you're willing to take it slower if he really wants to. But only if you're ready to do that of course. Sorry to hear about your loss and I hope you get him back.1