Why do guys run away when they realize they have feelings for the girl? or vice versa?
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- Fear of comittment
- Fear of rejection
- Fear of resentment
- Fear of pain
Consider it like "buyers remorse"; if you finally buy that new television after saving up all of your money for a couple months, yet you don't like it and can't exchange/return it... What feeling would you have? Or even if you had bought the tv, but later realise that there was a new TV coming around the corner.
There will always be women in this world that shatter men; as much as there are men that shatter women. These breaking-point realisations are what sculpt our personality and desire to lead our own successful lives.
- The people you are noticing, that seem fearful of certain things, may have encountered these "breaking-points" and decided to hide; or they may not have come close to the breaking-point yet, which leaves it as an unknown certainty. In both situations you would have fear.
So it's not that he doesn't like what he sees. It could be for many reasons:
- Maybe he's the guy that's looking at all the prospective women in his life and trying to find a good match.
- Maybe he's a guy that's hurting too much to pursue a relationship again
- Maybe he wasn't interested in you and is trying to save both of you from headaches and heartbreaks.
Ultimately, you are still you and he is still him.