Ex-boyfriend seems unhappy after breaking up with me?

İ've made a mistake. İ tried to convince him but he said he doesn't want a relationship anymore and wants to focus on his self. İt has been 3 weeks since he left me but he seems a little bit sad. He's posting things like "it will be fine, İ have to be patient, deserve someone who understands me, loves my flaws", etc. He removed my pictures from his facebook but one obvious picture about us he doesn't remove. Does he still care? Should I reach out and talk to him? İ really want to solve things between us.

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Most Helpful Guy

  • No you should wait for him to say something. He made the decision to focus on himself and she should be given that opportunity to do that without bugging him about a relationship.

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    • Should İ let him know İ still love him/ care about him? How can İ make him feel this without pushing anything?

Most Helpful Girl

  • Yes he still cares BUT he clearly wants to move on. You need to let him deal with it alone and if you try to fix anything between the two of you, You'll only push him further away. So my advice is... leave him be.

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    • İ really love this guy, he really loved me. How can I make him realise he has to come back, that İ really care about him and want to change everything?

    • Did you not just read what I wrote? You can't. He made up HIS mind. He wants to move on. Don't push him away. Give him a few months to cope and then maybe give him a call or a text to see how he's doing.

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What Guys Said 2

  • No one here can say they know what kind of relationship the two of you had. Have you ever given him a reason to feel like you haven't accepted him for who he is? There is no way to know what he is thinking. If he asked for space give it to him if not try to reach out but by no means bring up the relationship in any way you might not get what you want but dont give up but dont push, treat it like you have no history. Spend time for yourself to be with friends, family, workout, focus on you and take it one step at a time. If you begin talking again and start having fun together after some time you can bring up dating again. I to have recently been broken up with by my girlfriend of 3 years, I know how you feel and I can't stress enough dont push, I have made those mistakes and it isn't good. You have to decide what will be best for you, at the end of the day you are in control of only yourself. I hope you the best and just know you are not alone.

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  • he smart man going mgtow

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What Girls Said 1

  • He already said he doesn't want a relationship and wants to focus on himself. If that changes he will reach out to YOU--reaching out to him will only cause issues

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