- Girl wants to break up because I didn't want to commit and she is 27 and looking for a serious relationship.
- She says she wants to stay in touch as friends but only through whatsapp, she can't see me. I do this for her, it helped her get over me.
- I start missing her after 2 weeks, asking to see her. telling her how much I love and miss her.
every time she declines.
I really miss her and want to continue with her, I made a mistake by letting her go and want to get back into a relationship with her
But I hear from friends she starts partying, drinking, dating, going out a lot, losing weight, sleeping around?
she gets more cold and distant, doesn't reciprocate my feelings of love any more.
at first I couldn't see her because her feelings for me were too strong she said
now I can't see her, and she doesn't want to tell me why
she says we won't get back together and her feelings for me are gone.
this has been going on for 4 months now.
it hurts because she broke up because I didn't want to commit
now she goes slutting it up to everybody else except me
why do women do this?
I have been very honest during our entire relationship and I feel betrayed.
Why doesn't she want to have sex with me
Most Helpful Girl
Sometimes when you don't want to commit to a woman she'll take it as if something is wrong with her. Not all women are like this, but some are. And so then they seek validation from other people in the form of attention or sex or whatever. That's a POSSIBILITY, though I'm not saying that's the case here.
She's over you. That's it. Why would you think she'd want to have sex with you again? And why do you act like just because she goes out and "sluts it up" that she owes you anything or should give it up to you too?2
Most Helpful Guy
She became a 'slut' in your eyes only.3