My girlfriend of 3 years broke up with me a few months back. I begged the whole time which I know I shouldn't but I can't seem to stop. she's asked me for space and says she still wants me in her life but right now she doesn't want to talk. I feel empty inside like I lost a part of me I have a hard time eating and sleeping, I wake up in the middle of the night feeling sick. I feel like I put on a happy face but inside im broken. I asked her if she ever sees us together again and to be straight and to the point because I really just need to know. All she says is "I dont know the future, but right now I dont think so." I feel like that is a yes and a no at the same time. Is there still a chance? Maybe I pushed too much, I just feel like she is blinded by the anger of me talking to her that she refuses to feel anything more than that. I just want my best friend back, I was going to ask her to marry me, I've never felt so much love for a person before in my life, its hard to keep that bottled up.
- Give up she's gone.Vote A
- Hold out, give it time!Vote B
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I'm really sorry for the pain you're going through :'( . I know how it feels to be rejected by someone you love. But from what you've said, I think she's gone. Not because of what you did after she broke up with you; but I think to end a 3 year relationship she must have thought it through pretty thoroughly and been serious.
I know it's no use to you to hear that you'll heal with time right now, because it hurts now, you need to feel better now :( . But it's all anyone can really say :( . You won't feel this way forever, and you will love and be loved again.
Try and take care of yourself, I know it's hard. Vent online some more or write down how you feel. Hopefully you have people irl who will listen to you and support you and give you hugs too. <33