I'm a 24 year old male been married for almost 5 years. love my wife and she loves me. but she feels old and stuck and won't forget about my issues of flirting with girls on apps early in the marriage. meanwhile she has full on cheated 3 times. I don't want to leave because we have a son and invested money and time in this but she doesn't seem to be putting in the same effort to fix this as I am and I'm feeling drained... thoughts and help?
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I think counselling together is going to give you the best outcome. Both of you have had issues with fidelity and trust and you were married very young.
If you want your marriage to work then you both need to be able to put those things behind and come up with a new plan. Put effort into dating each other and making them feel special and loved. Take an hour each day where you just focus on your spouse with no interruptions and be together, remind the other why you married them.
Personally the cheating for me is a deal breaker but if each of you want to work it out then you need to be able to put it behind you0
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